Problematic of Opposite Sex Friendships

So here's an issue.


How do you recognize and separate friendship and sexual attraction from each other?

Is that friend love, or loving a girl love?

In a situation you have a lot opposite sex good friends, you're still dang single, thats gonna be an big issue(unless you're gay.)
You love all your friends. Amazing Girls. But you also feel lonely from all the years from being single.
Dating your friends, I don't know, it's just weird.
And sometimes the attempt of relationship might even ruin the friendship itself.


All I can think of is to be passive about things.
Friendship first priority, a least thats what I'm doing now. (I'm never getting married, am I?)


Dang I need to date people.

Why never people come and ask me out for a date?



Any other suggestions?

aftermath

it feels weird now
after chelsea came, and she left.
it feels like you had something very meaningful to you returned to you.
but just for a day.
and it's gone again


just like the ending of the movie Artificial Intelligent.

The robot boy get to be with her mother, but just for one day.



and like there is so much I wanna to say, so much wanna do
but didn't got the chance



alone again.

miss you all.

friends

So I was going over the old photos in my aperture library.

It reminds me all those good times we had before.

All the time we spent in Hawaii.


I'm not sure how people think about this friendship,
but for me it's like the most important thing in my life
I would do anything to preserve this friendship, I have my word.


I miss all the people in hawaii,
the old dead tree, April, Anita, Leana, Jesus, Alex, James, Rachael, Chelsea, Holly, Katie, Kanasa, Sasha
the Ke Alakai peeps, Erynn, Ryan, Sara,
Alyssa, Erika, Collette, Brett, Bremen,
Matt, and everyone else.
(Sorry if I forgot your name)

It was the old days.


The good old days.


Friend come and go, but real friendships doesn't.



People always says friends forever, not really.

How long it will last would depend on how much effort you devote in it.





I wish I'm above average. :P


naive huh?


it sounds awfully gay huh?! haha
I would be homosexual if I really had to be to remain these friendships.(Wish that day never comes......)

third person perspective self joking is funny

so I while writing postcards tonight

I went to ask for April for her address on MSN.

She start being emotional.



It was just some words that made me felt warm.


this is one part of the conversation:

Ting Shen: cause I realy want to have a life time good friend
Ting Shen: but
Ting Shen: I never had the chance to have one
Ting Shen: cause I was always moving
Ting Shen: not always
Ting Shen: but moved in the worng timing
April: yeah
April: well you have one now
April: she just sucks at keeping in touch
Ting Shen: lol
Ting Shen: you
April: but will always care and try my best to be there for you
Ting Shen: third person perspective self joking is funny
April: yeah
April: lol


thats what friends are for.





I miss you april.


I miss you all, my friends in Hawaii.